The people that have suffered and have overcome? They know all the tricks. They know what to say. They know how to act. They know what NOT to say.
And those people sometimes die.
It’s so hard to know, to intrude without intruding, to be able to get in front of it.
I don’t have the answer. Maybe there is none. Just always try and take care of each other. Always care, and never be shy to let them know. Do your best. It’s all anyone can do.