Teen Suicide

A tweet from Maggie Haberman brought us here.

“Teen suicide is now at a 40-year high for young women Alexandra’s age. It is now the second leading cause of death for 15 to 24 year olds of both sexes.”

From CBS News

Parents blindsided by daughter’s tragic suicide hope her story helps save others

The home video will look so familiar to so many parents: a sweet little girl singing and dancing her way to her teen years, recognized for achievements outside the home and thoroughly cherished inside it.

But the full story of Alexandra Valoras’ life is more terrifying than familiar. Just weeks after a family ski vacation, the 17-year-old high school junior, straight-A student, class officer and robotics whiz made her bed, tidied her room and walked to a highway overpass in Grafton, Massachusetts. She jumped off the edge.

“I leaned over the embankment and looked down, and I saw her,” said Dean Valoras, her father. “I was just hoping for warmth. Do you know what I mean? But there was no warmth, there was none. And all the cars kept driving by. My daughter’s on the side of the road, nobody saw this. And she’s cold.”

On the overpass, Dean and his wife Alysia found two journals their daughter left behind.

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Mental Health Matters

Today is World Mental Health Day, which seeks to build awareness, drive education and reduce social stigma around mental health. In the UK, in any one year, roughly one in four people are likely to be suffering from a mental health condition. Consequently, mental health issues (including stress, depression, anxiety and others) have resulted in 15.8 million days of sickness absence in 2016 alone. For businesses large and small, that’s a real challenge, and I’ve long said that taking care of the mental health of staff, customers and even the wider community should be a priority for any business.

To many people, mental health is a deeply personal issue, partly because there is so much stigma. And the numbers confirm it: just 13 per cent feel able to disclose a mental health issue to their line manager. And only 53 per cent of all employees feel comfortable talking about mental health issues like depression and anxiety at work at all. It’s a vicious cycle: evidence shows that those who do open up put themselves at risk of more serious repercussions for their mental health. I think that’s an unacceptable situation.

At Virgin, we take the mental health of our people and that of our wider community very seriously. And I’m proud to say that some of the Virgin companies are doing wonderful work to make sure their staff and customers are well and feel taken care. One fantastic and inspiring example is Virgin Australia, who have launched “Better Me”, a mobile and web-based platform for health and wellbeing of staff. And in the UK, Virgin Active have partnered with Salary Finance to explore and address the impact of financial wellbeing on our mental health.

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A Blueprint When Feeling Blue: How A Mental Health Diagnosis Can Be Empowering

When First Impressions are the Worst Impressions

The first time you ever heard the term “mental illness”, what did you think of? I can tell you what I thought of.

I was in the beginning of high school the first time I recall hearing this term. At the time, associated it with people who were unstable. I thought of people who were violent or adults who had tantrums or isolated old women who never left the house. I thought of mental illness as something that was permanent, something that individuals “had” and couldn’t recover from. Even though de-institutionalization was prevalent by that point, I still thought of people who have long stays at psychiatric wards and pictured them mumbling to themselves in a straight jacket.

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Starting Yoga and Meditation as a Senior

Yoga and meditation have both seen a huge surge in popularity in past years — the number of Americans who have tried yoga alone has increased 50 percent in the past four years. It is often assumed that the people who could benefit most from yoga are those working stressful jobs; however, this ignores the incredible potential of these practice for the elderly.

Whether you are a senior yourself or a caregiver to one, it’s never too late to introduce the benefits of yoga and meditation.

What are Yoga and Meditation?

 Most of us know about yoga due to its recent boom in popularity as a fitness craze, but its origins go back 5,000 years to Hindu priests seeking to achieve unity between mind, body, and spirit. The practice of meditation was also first recorded within the Hindu faith, but it soon spread to other regions of Asia. Both of them made their way to America in the 20th century and have grown as a cultural phenomenon since.

Although yoga and meditation are two separate practices, they often go together. This is because yoga has deeply meditative properties, and the two practices are extremely complimentary. Both involve a focus on deep, mindful breathing exercises, and an aim to provide a sense of clarity and mental well-being.

Yoga combines physical fitness, breathing, and meditation into one practice. However, many people who do yoga also practice meditation in a more traditional sense, which is a fully mental exercise rather than a physical one.

How Can They Help the Elderly?

There are a few ways that yoga and meditation can specifically benefit senior citizens:

  • Yoga promotes flexibility and balance, both of which can reduce the chance of injury from a fall or trip. According to Reuters, just 20 hours of yoga could significantly improve balance and mobility in seniors.
  • Yoga can help with joint pain and arthritis, making chronic pain more manageable.
  • Both yoga and meditation can improve focus. In fact, a 2014 study on the effects of meditation on the elderly indicated that it could offset age-related cognitive decline.
  • Both have been shown to alleviate symptoms of depression, which affects 7 million American adults over the age of 65.

How to Get Started

For yoga, you should start by joining a class. Though there are thousands of online instructional videos you could do at home, you should at least learn the basics with a teacher before moving on to solo practice. There are plenty of yoga classes out there specifically for senior citizens, and joining one could be a great way to meet new people while making sure you stay safe in your movements.

As for meditation, you can either join a local group or do it at home. It can be difficult to concentrate in a room in which you usually eat, sleep, or watch TV, so ideally, you should create a dedicated room for your meditation practice. Decorate it with anything that helps you relax, such as candles, incense, or plants. The only furniture you need is a comfortable chair.

To get you started with meditation practice, set aside 20 minutes of your day to sit in your dedicated room, either in silence or with meditative music playing, focusing on your breathing. Every time your mind wanders to something else, guide it back to your breathing. You may not be able to clear your mind the first time, and that is normal — like anything else, you will get better with practice.

Starting a yoga or meditation practice can feel intimidating, but it is actually very simple. The most important thing to remember is that despite what you might have heard, there is not a right or wrong way to do yoga or meditation — both are flexible to your needs and abilities. There is nothing about being older that stops you from enjoying their benefits, which means that it’s time to invest in a yoga mat and start practicing mindfulness.

How alcohol negatively impacts sleep

Alcohol and Sleep

Article by Tuck.

Alcohol causes drowsiness. This has led to the popular misconception that it can aid sleep. Up to 20 percent of Americans report using alcohol as a sleep aid. However, alcohol negatively impacts the quality of your sleep, as well as how long you can expect to sleep. Alcohol consumption before bed causes interrupted sleep, due to side effects such as night sweats and disturbed REM sleep.

Alcohol dependence and sleep disorders are often co-morbid – people suffer both at the same time. Alcohol-related sleep disorders include insomnia, sleep apnea, and daytime fatigue.

The problem with using alcohol as a sleep aid

Alcohol does reduce the initial amount of time required for you to fall asleep. However, it result in disrupted sleep.

The problem with using one drink as a sleep aid, is that while it may work initially, eventually your body develops a tolerance for it. As a result, you may find yourself needing more and more levels of alcohol in order to fall asleep, which can lead to alcoholism. Using alcohol as a sleep aid is dangerous as it can lead to dependence and even alcoholism.

One drink before bed may not impact sleep quality or length. However, the effects of alcohol on sleep are directly correlated – the more alcohol that is consumed, the worse the effects on sleep.

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Artist Illustrates His Battle With Depression as a Mystical World of Spirit Animals

Polish artist and graphic designer Dawid Planeta summons gigantic beasts in his series of grayscale illustrations set in a mysterious land. Titled Mini People in the Jungle, his work explores the artist’s personal experience with depression, visualizing the mental journey through dark times. Planeta explains, “It’s a story of a man descending into darkness and chaos in search of himself.”

Self-Care When Facing the Emotional and Psychological Effects of Cancer

By Bethany Hatton

The Psychological Effects of Cancer

Cancer care has progressed significantly in the past few years, but it is still the second-leading cause of death in the United States. A cancer diagnoses rocks a person’s world and can have a negative impact on their mental health. In fact, the emotional and psychological effects can be just as difficult to deal with as the physical ones.

Cancer patients often experience various psychiatric issues:

  • Depression
  • Anxiety
  • Adjustment disorders
  • Grief
  • Antisocial tendencies
  • Aggression

Unfortunately, these problems only make recovery that much more difficult. The mind and body are intrinsically connected. Just as a cancer diagnosis can lead to these psychiatric struggles, feelings of depression and anxiety can make it harder for the body to defend itself from illness. That’s why it is as important to practice mental self-care as it is to go through with physical treatment for cancer.

Don’t Give Up Activities You Enjoy

Fitting in doctor appointments and treatments into your already packed schedule may prompt some sacrifices. However, don’t give up those activities that bring you happiness and reduce stress. Keep up with your favorite hobbies as a source of grounding. Carrying on with the things you love helps to normalize the situation while also boosting positive feelings thanks to a rush of dopamine in the brain.

Spend Time with Those You Love

Nothing makes us appreciate the people in our life like the threat of losing them. Use this cancer diagnoses as the excuse you need to reconnect with the people you love. When spending time with them, don’t just focus on your cancer. Instead, do activities you enjoy together and make memories you can refer to when you are feeling down about your diagnosis.

Prepare Healthy Foods

Your treatment should be left to your oncologist. However, cooking wholesome meals for yourself is a great way to support healthy body function. Make wholesome dishes that nourish your body in its state. Use plenty of fruits and vegetables from across the color spectrum. Start experimenting with new whole grains. Hit up your local farmers market for the best selection of naturally raised meats. If nausea is a problem, try foods that can stimulate the appetite. You can also talk to your doctor about ways to reduce nausea.

Get Moving

Cancer and treatment drain the body of its energy. Moderate exercise supports your body’s recovery while alleviating both physical and mental symptoms. Try gentle exercises such as walking, swimming, or going to a yoga class to reap the benefits.

Express Yourself

When you are diagnosed with cancer, there are a lot of emotions. You may feel betrayed by your body and alone in the experience. Seeking support from others who have either been where you are or are going through treatment themselves can help with feelings of isolation. At your support group, you have the opportunity to vent about your feelings and difficulties without feeling like you are burdening those around you.

Support groups aren’t for everyone, but that doesn’t mean lone wolves should keep their emotions inside of them. If you’d rather not join a group, try starting a cancer journal where you can express your frustrations and the difficulties you encounter while going through treatment. Keeping all that negative energy in isn’t good for you so let it out.

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Cancer doesn’t just affect a person physically. A diagnosis can be as damaging to a person’s mental health as it is to their physical well-being. To combat the negative effects, practice self-care and support your overall health with a holistic approach.

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Student-led mental health initiatives shifting how schools provide supports

FROM:  THE CANADIAN PRESS

 

As Canadian universities and colleges face increasing pressure to provide better mental-health services on campus, students are looking to give schools fresh ideas on how to tackle the issue.

That’s how 24-year-old Ryan Golt became involved with working alongside Montreal’s McGill University to support students. But before he got there, he faced his own mental-health crisis.

After his first year of undergraduate studies, Golt says he began to feel lonely, isolated and irritable. The psychology student started to have issues with his interpersonal relationships, and ultimately, he says he couldn’t function.

“Eventually, it just became too much and the negative emotions started to overcome me,” said Golt.

That was in 2014, when he experienced his first bout of depression. It’s a mental illness that impacts about 14 per cent of students at McGill, and close to 20 per cent of students nation wide, according to recent data from the National College Health Assessment, a survey that presents the health data of students so schools know where to target their services.

Golt spent six months after his diagnosis keeping to himself, and not sharing what had happened with anyone.

After reading other students’ posts on social media groups about their own challenges with mental illness, something switched in him, he said.

“For the first time, I felt like I wasn’t alone, like I was a part of a community,” he said. Sharing his personal story online led him to a community of young people who were talking about mental health, and supporting each other through recovery for mental illness.

Golt said the social aspect of his healing process inspired him to create several mental-health initiatives on the McGill campus, including his own blog called WellMTL. The blog features candid personal stories by students who share their full names, with some discussing anxiety attacks, family troubles, and past issues with suicidal ideation.

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Relevez le défi « j’arrête de me plaindre » pendant 1 mois

This article is in French, but it is great for those of you who speak/read French – the basic premise? “I am stopping complaining for 1 month” – a simple (?) and yet very difficult and very *positive* change to try for yourself!

Deux Belges ont lancé un nouveau défi pour nous aider à lutter efficacement contre la négativité : ne pas se plaindre pendant un mois. Dans un monde où il devient de plus en plus difficile de voir la vie du bon côté, cela devrait nous aider à voir les choses d’une manière plus positive.

 

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Kids Help Phone’s ultimate back-to-school guide

From the Kid’s Help Phone website

Heading back to school after summer vacation? Here’s how to get ready for class.

Whether you love, hate or are indifferent about going back to school, it’s something every student has to prepare for. Here are a few ways to make the transition from summer vacation to a new school year easier:

  • Keep in touch: over the summer, try to stay in touch with your friends to maintain your relationships. This way, things may seem a little more familiar when you go back to school.
  • Prepare early: write a list and prepare your back-to-school essentials at the start of the summer instead of the end to avoid the rush.
  • Refresh your memory: try to practice the things you learned last year while you’re on summer vacation. Reading, writing and applying your math skills can be fun and rewarding.
  • Sleep smart: in the weeks leading up to your first day, try going to bed earlier each night — and getting up earlier each morning — to help your body adjust to a new schedule.
  • Visit your school: many schools are open the week before school starts. You can always contact your school, book an appointment, tour the halls and meet your teachers if you need to.
  • Know the route: no matter what method of transportation you use to get to school, it’s a good idea to test out the route so you know exactly how to get to class and how long it will take.
  • Prep your meals: if you bring a lunch to school, consider taking some time to pack it the night before instead of in the morning.
  • Organize your closet: figure out what you’re going to wear on the first day in advance so you’re not stressed about finding something to put on when you wake up in the morning.
  • Pack your bags: if you’re taking a backpack to school, fill it with whatever school supplies you have (pens, pencils, notebook, agenda, etc.) well before your first day so you’re ready to get up and go.
  • Stay busy: make the most of summer to keep your mind off the back-to-school blues. For example, you could try taking up a new sport or hobby.
  • Get support: it’s common to feel nervous about the first day of school. If you need to talk, you can always call a Kids Help Phone counsellor at 1-800-668-6868.

Going back to school after summer vacation can be hard, but there are things you can do to make the transition easier.

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